don’t wear red to a wedding
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Do not wear red to a wedding. Just don’t. Ok there is more to it, but really, don’t wear the color red. And while I’m at it, in case you didn’t know, white is never okay either. Although these are both personally something I dislike, there are etiquette reasons for avoiding these colors as well.
You should avoid white because that color is typically reserved for the bride. It’s one day in her life that is strictly ALL ABOUT HER. Don’t try to steal it. Wearing white is like you are trying to compete with her — think who wore it best. Not cool.
Also, try to avoid colors that look like white, cream for example, because not only does the bride reserve the right to wear that color for her special day, it also can photograph like white. And nobody wants that.
Now, red is inappropriate for a similar reason, but instead of competing, you are trying to outshine her. Red is a bright color. It stands out in a crowd. Ever hear that your car insurance is higher if your car is red? Same thing — you are easily seen. People notice you. And yes, I’m all for looking great and being noticed, but do it for you, not for the color you’re wearing, or to take away from someone's special day.
Besides, there are plenty of other colors out there that you can choose from. It’s one day, one event, just leave the red and white at home.
So what should you wear? I typically shop at Lulu’s for special occasion dresses — they have the best selection! Nordstrom, Red Dress Boutique and Revolve are a few other favorites. And below are some of my favorite dresses right now that will keep eyes on the bride, but have you (the appropriate guest) dressed for the occasion.
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